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AllieK's avatar

Beautiful. I make a practice every week of writing down little moments of happiness in my phone, and compiling the list on Facebook on Fridays. And I absolutely agree that it's not about being relentlessly positive - I also share when things are sad, and frustrating, because what's the point if I'm not bringing my whole self? But even hard weeks have those glimmers of beauty.

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Katie Hawkins-Gaar's avatar

I love this idea! What a lovely practice and a simple way to model it for others.

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Lisa Kelly Zuba's avatar

Wonderfully written and an important reminder that it is all “just life” — the joy and sorrow. Clearly you’ve done magnificent work in bringing joy to your life in the midst of great sorrow.

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Katie Hawkins-Gaar's avatar

Thank you, Lisa. That means a lot!

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Lori Z.'s avatar

Simply beautiful and so eloquently said, Katie. Thank you for this.

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Katie Hawkins-Gaar's avatar

Thank you, Lori!

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Rosa Alicia Santoyo's avatar

Thank you for sharing your sorrow and the glimmers that light the path on the darkest of spaces. Sending lots of healing love. ❤️

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Katie Hawkins-Gaar's avatar

Thank you for reading, Rosa ❤️

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Gwen's avatar

I love this! I have kept gratitude journals, but have needed lately something to bring myself back to a fresh perspective. I think maybe this is it! Noticing and logging tiny joys, for a while, instead!

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Katie Hawkins-Gaar's avatar

That makes me happy! I hope it works for you!

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Jon's avatar

Brilliant. Those small pockets of happiness are just wonderful and can be pulled from the slightest things. Great piece.

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Katie Hawkins-Gaar's avatar

Thank you, Jon!

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caroline perkins's avatar

Thanks, Katie--I needed this. So much wisdom from such a youngster! I'm twice your age, but not nearly so insightful. Your essays are much appreciated.

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Katie Hawkins-Gaar's avatar

That’s very kind, Caroline! Thank you.

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Katie Waldron's avatar

Thank you so much for this. I'm sharing it with a friend who is going through her own grief journey. I'm so happy you've found a way to appreciate the small joys and to find your path forward after losing someone you loved so much.

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Anya's avatar

This made me smile and was my little joy for the day, thank you for sharing this <3

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